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Statewide Chair Mary
McLellan Heritage Community Services
Regional
Chairs Mariscia
Cooper (Pee Dee) Charlie Lybrand (Lowcountry) Lenna Neill (Upstate) Rev. Randy Riddle (Grand Strand) Dr. Roger Rollins (CSRA) Charlotte Valentine-Green (Ace Basin)
Advisory Council Eugene Bacote Darlington School District Dr. Vera Bailey Hilton Head Preg. Care Center Pamela Berry Colleton Fire and Rescue Dr. Vonda Calcutt Lowcountry Ctr. Diabetes Sen. Chip Campsen Charleston/Berkeley Rev. Chuck Coward Charleston Outreach Robin
Crosby Colleton County Ligure Ellington Ret.Capt. Charleston City Police Dr. Randy Goings Chiropractic Physician Faye Hill Lowcountry Pregnancy Center & SC Association Pregnancy Care
Centers WC Hoecke Fatherhood Practioner Leroy Lewis Upward Bound at Cof C Norman L. Moore, Jr. Colonel, USAFR(Ret) Cyndi Mosteller Comm. for Higher Education Alexia Newman Carolina Pregnancy Center Fred Payne Marriage Savers of Upstate Jerry & Barbara Seymour R& R Marriage Min. Ronald Shoupe Colleton County Dr. A. V. Strong A Better Way, Inc. (Gang Out) Dr. Robert Thomas Pulmonary Medicine Pastor Phil
Thrailkill St. Luke UMC Hartsville Kelly Walker Upstate Fatherhood Coalition |
April 15, 2011 SC Healthy Family Formation Coalition E-News! Do we
really want to increase test scores and graduation rates? Then we need to
stop fooling around teaching
our teens how to enjoy so-called Safe Sex. Not only does Safe Sex spread
diseases such as HPV and
Genital Herpes, (even with
condoms) any sexual activity can have a direct impact on academic
achievement. According to the following research, it is the sexual activity
alone that seems to disrupt the lives of our youth.
Teens
that abstain from all sexual activity have less emotional turmoil (DRAMA),
fewer psychological distractions and are better able to focus on
schoolwork. They also have common underlying personality and character
traits such as impulse control, perseverance, resistance to peer pressure,
respect for authority, and goals for the future.
This
explains why abstinent teens are sixty-percent less likely to be expelled
from school or to drop out of school. Plus, they are almost twice as
likely to attend or graduate from college.
Clearly, the same life-skills required to successfully practice
abstinence are needed to excel academically. Abstaining from all risky
behaviors should be the primary message our children receive from their
parents and teachers. Teaching teens the benefits of abstaining from sexual activity is
not only a positive health message - similar to avoiding tobacco, alcohol,
drugs, and violence – it sets a high standard for everyone.
Almost ninety-percent of teens agree that they should be taught to
abstain from sex until they have at least finished high
school! The
truth is - everyone is not ‘doing it’, the ‘horse is not out of the barn’,
the ‘genie is not out of the bottle’, and our teens deserve better than
stereotypical labels and clichés. Data
from the National
Survey of Family Growth
(2010, 2011) indicates that since 1996, more than 70% of 15-17 year
old boys and girls have NEVER had sex. Even the 18-19 year
old emancipated college-age teens are rethinking the “Friends with
Benefits” Hook-Up Culture and abstaining at increased
rates. So, stop
fooling around! Learn how to talk to your kids
about abstinence. They are ready to listen.
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The South Carolina Healthy Family Formation Coalition (SC HFF Coalition) is organized and staffed by Heritage Community Services. The SC HFF Coalition promotes child and family well-being by providing opportunities for statewide communication about such issues as: adolescent pregnancy, unwed childbearing, fatherlessness, sexual exploitation of our youth, dating violence and domestic violence, child abuse and neglect, gang activity and youth violence.
Coalition members support healthy family formation initiatives that integrate character-based life skills, teen pregnancy prevention with an emphasis on abstinence-centered education, and the importance of fidelity-within-marriage.
Together
we can impact our culture so that forming healthy families becomes a norm,
rather than the exception, for Please, forward this E-News to interested friends, family and colleagues and ask them to consider joining the Coalition. PRIVACY POLICY: Information you share will never be sold, rented, or given to any third party. Contact
Mary
McLellan
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Statewide Chairman (843)654-7740
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