Statewide Chair

Mary McLellan

Heritage Community Services

Regional Chairs

Mariscia Cooper

(Pee Dee)

Charlie Lybrand

(Lowcountry)

Lenna Neill

(Upstate)

Rev. Randy Riddle

(Grand Strand)

Dr. Roger Rollins

(CSRA)

Charlotte Valentine-Green

(Ace Basin)

 

Advisory Council

Eugene Bacote

Darlington School District

Dr. Vera Bailey

Hilton Head Preg. Care Center

Pamela Berry

Colleton Fire and Rescue

Dr. Vonda Calcutt

Lowcountry Ctr. Diabetes

Sen. Chip Campsen

Charleston/Berkeley

Rev. Chuck Coward

Charleston Outreach

Robin Crosby

Colleton County

Ligure Ellington

Ret.Capt. Charleston City Police

Dr. Randy Goings

Chiropractic Physician

Faye Hill

Lowcountry Pregnancy Center & SC Association Pregnancy Care Centers

WC Hoecke

Fatherhood Practioner

Leroy Lewis

Upward Bound at Cof C

Norman L. Moore, Jr.

Colonel, USAFR(Ret)

Cyndi Mosteller

Comm. for Higher Education

Alexia Newman

Carolina Pregnancy Center

Fred Payne

Marriage Savers of Upstate

Jerry & Barbara Seymour

R& R Marriage Min.

Ronald Shoupe

Colleton County

Dr. A. V. Strong

A Better Way, Inc. (Gang Out)

Dr. Robert Thomas

Pulmonary Medicine

Pastor Phil Thrailkill

St. Luke UMC Hartsville

Kelly Walker

Upstate Fatherhood Coalition

 

February 12, 2010

SC Healthy Family Formation Coalition E-News!

 

It’s not easy being Cupid

Should Cupid inspire romance that lasts a life time or hook-ups for fun and games?    

 

Valentine’s Day, a fun day for children to express love and friendship, is more often pitched to adults and teens as a time to indulge in sex, regardless of the relationship.    

 

Not only are we bombarded with the predictable Valentine’s Day promotions, we bounce from the positive National Marriage Week, What else could that ring buy?, What Drives Sacrificing for a Partner?, to the negative Sex Week at Yale, V-Day on College Campuses, Planned Parenthood Greeting Cards, Condom Bowls in NYC, to so much more…

 

There is growing angst in our society over the ‘old school’ low expectations for romance, marriage and family life.  Most of us are looking for more…

 

 

“Ultimately, what most of us are looking for isn’t the guy who keeps us so intoxicatingly distracted that we’re tingling in anticipation of his every phone call.  It’s the guy we feel completely comfortable with, the guy who ‘gets us’, hugs us at our parents’ funerals, laughs with us, reminds us to go to the doctor, fixes the toilet, has our backs and eventually set his dentures on the counter next to ours.”

 

Lori Gottlieb in The Washington Post 2/5/2010

Author of Marry Him

 

 

Love, yes, but be committed to marriage

By the Honorable Leah Ward Sears, Ret. Chief Justice of the Georgia Supreme Court

 

Here’s a word of advice this Valentine’s Day: Don’t marry for love.

 

Before you hopeless romantics hurl a chocolate heart at my head, let me qualify that.  What I really mean is this: Don’t marry only (or even mostly) for love.  Find out why…

 

 

They're Golden: Together for 50+ Years and Still in Love

Six couples share their most unforgettable moments and secrets of staying happily married… Read about it

 

 

Key to Success in Marriage

One couple organizes the churches in an effort to combat the divorce rate. (Community Marriage Initiatives and Marriage Savers)

 

 

Married Life Important to Business Life

“… marriage and relationship wellness is corporate America’s business. Divorce and failing relationships impact how an employee performs at work and costs employers money.”

 

“… a healthy marriage uses the same skills that make a more effective employee. Those skills include: Emotional Relational Intelligence (our relationships with others); valuing differences; communication; listening skills; and conflict management. Read more…

 

 

For more information on how to start a Healthy Family Formation Initiative in your place of business, church, agency or community - contact the SC HFF Coalition.

 

 

 

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The South Carolina Healthy Family Formation Coalition (SC HFF Coalition) is organized and staffed by Heritage Community Services. The SC HFF Coalition promotes child and family well-being by providing opportunities for statewide communication about such issues as: adolescent pregnancy, unwed childbearing, fatherlessness, sexual exploitation of our youth, dating violence and domestic violence, child abuse and neglect, gang activity and youth violence. 

 

Coalition members support healthy family formation initiatives that integrate character-based life skills, teen pregnancy prevention with an emphasis on abstinence-centered education, and the importance of fidelity-within-marriage.

 

Together we can impact our culture so that forming healthy families becomes a norm, rather than the exception, for South Carolina.

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