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Statewide Chair Mary
McLellan Heritage Community Services
Regional
Chairs Mariscia
Cooper (Pee Dee) Charlie Lybrand (Lowcountry) Lenna Neill (Upstate) Rev. Randy Riddle (Grand Strand) Dr. Roger Rollins (CSRA) Charlotte Valentine-Green (Ace Basin)
Advisory Council Eugene Bacote Darlington School District Dr. Vera Bailey Hilton Head Preg. Care Center Pamela Berry Colleton Fire and Rescue Dr. Vonda Calcutt Lowcountry Ctr. Diabetes Sen. Chip Campsen Charleston/Berkeley Rev. Chuck Coward Charleston Outreach Robin
Crosby Colleton County Ligure Ellington Ret.Capt. Charleston City Police Dr. Randy Goings Chiropractic Physician Faye Hill Lowcountry Pregnancy Center & SC Association Pregnancy Care
Centers WC Hoecke Fatherhood Practioner Leroy Lewis Upward Bound at Cof C Norman L. Moore, Jr. Colonel, USAFR(Ret) Cyndi Mosteller Comm. for Higher Education Alexia Newman Carolina Pregnancy Center Fred Payne Marriage Savers of Upstate Jerry & Barbara Seymour R& R Marriage Min. Ronald Shoupe Colleton County Dr. A. V. Strong A Better Way, Inc. (Gang Out) Dr. Robert Thomas Pulmonary Medicine Pastor Phil
Thrailkill St. Luke UMC Hartsville Kelly Walker Upstate Fatherhood Coalition |
January 15, 2010 SC Healthy Family Formation Coalition E-News!
Charleston Health
Fair: January 23rd & 24th
Heritage Keepers will be one of 60+
providers, businesses and non-profits at the Total Health
Fair in It’s time for a New Year and a Healthier You! Charleston’s premier healthcare
providers and wellness based businesses have joined forces to create
Total Health Fair, a health based initiative for the Charleston area. Total Health Fair will increase
awareness of all forms of healthcare and healthy living opportunities that
are available to all residents of the low country. Visit
CharlestonHealthFair.com or call
843-402-0310. SCHFF Coalition
Grows! The E-News now reaches
over 3,000 members and most are parents! Parents have the greatest
influence on their children’s decisions plus they care more about their
future than any organization or agency ever could. For the Coalition,
Healthy Family Formation is not about fighting contraception
education. It is
about promoting a life sequence that works and teaching the Life Skills
young people need to best achieve it.
Family Formation
Matters The ways we form our
families, matters. Research
has proven that the Family Formation that produces the best psychological
and behavioral results includes two married biological parents that are
authoritative, nurturing and have set high standards for their children.
(Why
Marriage Matters: Twenty-Six Conclusions from the Social
Sciences, and Hardwired
to Connect.) Get an education,
Get a job, and then Start your family. Nothing new, but it is
profound. This ideal sequence makes it easier for children and their
parents to succeed at life.
Our society suffers because too many of us get it backwards. We carelessly slide in and out of
relationships rather than making thoughtful decisions about the
consequences. (Read
more about Sliding vs.
Deciding and Oxytocin, a chemical of trust, bonding and social
connection.) At the core of Healthy
Family Formation is the understanding that sex is best within a mutually
monogamous life-long relationship, such as marriage. Without educating (and sometimes
re-educating) each generation about how to achieve and perpetuate this
ideal life sequence, they will get it backwards. In Marriage
and Caste in America, author Kay Hymowitz explains that when
we as a society separate sex, marriage and childbearing the result is
chaos and entrenched multigenerational poverty. A type of economic caste system
develops between the married families and the unmarried families. The haves and the
have-nots! SC, Digging a Deeper
Hole? Governor Sanford and
Legislators are searching
for $530 million to cut from the state budget. And once again, the Governor has
slashed funding for teen pregnancy prevention programs (comprehensive
and abstinence) in his Executive
Budget. The Governor’s mark-up reads: “this activity [teen
pregnancy prevention] has been ranked as a
low priority…” Low priority? Since 1996, when Heritage educators began teaching in South
Carolina middle and high schools, there has been a 35% drop in pregnancy
rates for 15-17 year-olds. (SC-DHEC Biostatistics,
2005) Rigorous independent evaluations
on the Heritage program reveal that a year later, students receiving the
program were half as likely to initiate sexual activity
as those students not receiving the program. Even with the 35% drop in teen pregnancies, the taxpayers
still spend $469 million each and every year to
subsidize the consequences of out-of-wedlock childbirth and divorce. Sixty-two percent of families in poverty are
from single parent households, and, the National Fatherhood Initiative reports that “father absence is a factor in child
abuse, teen pregnancy, crime and incarceration.”
Can teen pregnancy rates to
increase 35%?
“Whether it is
education, crime, or poverty, there are huge
differences between single parent families and
two-parent families. Even
race doesn’t make as much difference in
outcomes. The poverty rate
among black married couples is
in single digits. The infant
mortality rate among black married
women with only a high school diploma is lower than the infant mortality
rate among white unmarried
women who have been to college… We need to stop
pretending that it makes no difference when all the facts
show that it makes a huge difference, from poverty to
matters of life and death.” Thomas Sowell, PhD
in Economics Syndicated
Columnist Contact
SCHFF for more information about Healthy Family
Formation and Heritage Keepers!
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The South Carolina Healthy Family Formation Coalition (SC HFF Coalition) is organized and staffed by Heritage Community Services. The SC HFF Coalition promotes child and family well-being by providing opportunities for statewide communication about such issues as: adolescent pregnancy, unwed childbearing, fatherlessness, sexual exploitation of our youth, dating violence and domestic violence, child abuse and neglect, gang activity and youth violence.
Coalition members support healthy family formation initiatives that integrate character-based life skills, teen pregnancy prevention with an emphasis on abstinence-centered education, and the importance of fidelity-within-marriage.
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